Ruby Usman

Ruby was born in the slums of Karachi, Pakistan. She has experienced sexual abuse at the hands of many men as a child; some of them strangers and others, close family members. She grew up as a Muslim woman and experienced violence and shaming of women as an integral part of society and culture. She now writes and speaks against these traditions that cause women to grow up with Shame, disrespect and violence. She is the founder of The Unshaming Project.
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God bless you! ~ Thank you for sharing ~ I share for my facebook J&R team to see. ~ Praying for your healing cycle. ~ a praying friend, Steven

Deas Plant.

Hi, Ruby Usman. Both thanks and congratulations for sharing your story. I have heard a few stories and have one of my own and none of them have been easy. The healing CAN be done alone. How-wevver, the person is not likely to know for sure just how well they have managed to heal until they are ‘exposed’ to a ‘testing’ situation – like a new relationship or seeing somebody else in a similar situation or hearing a similar story. That said, it IS almost always easier with some help, especially an understanding partner. Just my 0.02. Thanks again. You… Read more »