Ruby Usman

Ruby was born in the slums of Karachi, Pakistan. She has experienced sexual abuse at the hands of many men as a child; some of them strangers and others, close family members. She grew up as a Muslim woman and experienced violence and shaming of women as an integral part of society and culture. She now writes and speaks against these traditions that cause women to grow up with Shame, disrespect and violence. She is the founder of The Unshaming Project.
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Yes, this is a beautiful encounter, full of healthy boundaries, respect, open and honest communication, truth telling, Same As rather than one up and/or one down, presence, and discoveries in the moment made possible by letting go of ‘goal oriented’ sex. I am so glad you describe love making as a day long affair including a walk in the forest. If more married couples would practice and explore these processes, they would Never be bored in the bedroom again. Making “sex” a separate act of performance that is all about techniques and positions geared toward the over focused on goal… Read more »